I was with my girlfriend last week and we hadn’t seen each other in a while because we are in a long distance relationship. So naturally we did what any couple would—have sex. Except this time it was different—not bad, but I kept having my game thrown off from little annoying things that kept happening.
First, do you have any tips on fixing a loud squeaky bed? Gosh, it’s such a mood killer! Plus, speaking of mood killers, her phone rang, she glanced over at it, quickly saw who was calling and picked it up. When we were in the middle of the dirty act! I bet you could only imagine what happened to my sex drive after that—and my esteem. Did she not like what I was doing?
Then after her five-minute phone call, she comes back to me like everything is all normal and she’s all ready to go again. I got mad, we started fighting and the next thing I knew we were making out again. One thing led to another and there we were, having sex again. I’m still not pleased in this relationship. She lives in New York and I’m here. This girl is too much sometimes and manipulative; maybe this LDR isn’t for me?
Is it worth it?
Dear Is It Worth It,
Wow, a girl who picks up the phone during sex? Usually from what I understand, it’s the guy that usually makes that move. Yikes! If you only see this girl once every month or so and you do fight about other things in your relationship, then break away, honey. This is not for you!
It’s not worth it at all. Instead of worrying about her next phone call, she should be focusing on the action. Call me old-fashioned, but I don’t understand why any girl or boy would pick up the phone during sex. It’s probably the biggest no-no to do. If you’re feeling stressed from the relationship, just get out before it gets worse.
As far as fixing a squeaky bed, I don’t have a solution for that, except move it to the floor. Throw down some blankets and pillows and you’re good to go. Just remember whoever you end up with, stay safe. When you take off her blouse, cover your mouse!
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